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Objective: When it comes to taking photographs of your children, think about losing the unrealistic expectations and just go with the flow!

Every year I go all out for my holiday card. It's my business after all and so I always try and do something special. Normally it's a lot of fun coming up with my design and concept (planning my attack so to speak) and then the time comes to actually take the pictures...fun stops and frustration begins. Does it surprise you that I say that? I know you probably imagine that (of all children) my kids know how to have their picture taken right? They sit still and behave and I just snap away! It's a really nice fantasy and I like it too but that is not actually how it goes down.

Most kids (mine included) have a mind of their own when it comes to pictures. The best sessions happen when kids are happy, playing, wearing comfy clothes, are rested, not hungry and not aware that they are there for the sole purpose of being photographed. When I work in my studio or on location, there is a lot of play involved. I chase them around, make funny noises and ask off the wall questions to get them to laugh, etc. That is what makes it work- they don't really know that my main goal is their picture.

My kids are a bit immune to my charms. They know about the candy jar, they've seen my puppets and they know absolutely what we're doing at the studio. For us, I know how it has to be. It has to just flow. My kids are at their best when they are just being and I try and capture it. The problem is, sometimes I need them to do what I need them do when I need them do it, right?

I hesitate to even tell this story because I know that some of you got my card and thought how cute it was and how perfect and now here I am about to blow the "mystique" with the reality...Here goes, last year sometime in November, I take them up to the studio on a Sunday. I tell them what we're doing, the outfits were comfy, they were rested and fed and so on. Steven was with me to be my helper. They decided, for whatever reason, that they did NOT want to do what I wanted them to do when I wanted them to do it. I would tell them to sit together and one would stand up. I kept trying to get them to hug and they would wrestle. That was how it went. Steven finally stormed out of the room even saying something like "Damn it! It's not that hard!". Stellar parenting moment I know...I tried a save by saying, "Daddy, that's the naughty spot for you for saying a bad word!". Now when I think about it I just laugh to myself.

Finally I say, okay, let's make some silly faces. This always works for my guys. We ended on a fun note and called it a wrap but I was pissed. Here's the thing, I do this every day. I should have know that we had the shots without me being so uptight. If I had just relaxed and not had such specific expectations I would had so much more fun doing it. I know this so well but there I was trying to direct the action and getting all upset in the process.

Sayer knew I was a unhappy. Finn was oblivious- enjoying his "reward" candy ("only one piece and not two because you guys weren't super helpful!"). Sayer settles in on the floor beside my desk and starts drawing. I am downloading the cards and am pleasantly surprised that I did end up with some really fun shots. Again, not quite sure why I was so surprised. A moment later, Sayer comes up and puts this little drawing in front of me.

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He says in a low, sad voice, "Mommy, I am really sorry. Here's a picture of me and Finn. I'm sorry Mommy that we weren't helpful". I froze, immediately feeling guilty. He says, "this is a picture of me and Finn doing the hugging thing you wanted us to do...sorry Mommy". My eyes pricked with tears and I felt terrible but at the same time I was just so proud and so touched that he had done this. Steven and I just looked at each other and we both hugged him. I had this empty silver frame sitting there and I put the drawing in it right away and put it on the window sill next to my desk. It's still there.

So, what's the lesson? Today it is not a technical one but something more important. My lesson was this, meet them where they are. It's just a photograph. Photographs are hugely important to me obviously but it's not the one image. It's all of them combined. It's the experience of taking them and the story that they tell as a whole. For me it reinforced that when I go in to a photo session with them and have specific ideas in mind for what I want to capture, I risk missing what they actually have to offer that day. That day it was this:

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I had the shot that I wanted all along as well as a bunch of other ones but I wasn't really paying attention to what was there. I was too worried about what might not be there. Yes they were misbehaving and yes they were acting crazy but in the midst of it they were also being themselves.

I see it with my clients sometimes. If they come in with a set ideas of what they want they run the risk of being disappointed whereas if they come in with some general ideas, an outfit and a great attitude, they usually end up happier. A shy kid may not give me huge toothy grins when they first meet me and an active kid is not likely to sit still on command. We need to meet them where they are, especially if we want the photograph to be honest.

How about you guys? Does this ring true for you? I love hearing your comments so please share.

Happy Monday my friends!
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Bren says: this is why I love the pictures you take of my kids. I can see their spirit. as much as i know what you are saying (and have heard you say it many times), I still have to resist the urge to say "sit down and smile, dammit." i think it's hardwired into parents. we can really get in the way! (02.16.09 @ 07:33 AM)
Pamela Powell says: Thank you for this post! I just found this blog the other day and am slowly reading it backwards. This is what I needed! A gentle reminder to just have fun, with my clients as well as, and most importantly, with my own kids. (02.21.10 @ 02:50 PM)
December 22, 2008















Objective: Find new ways to get your subjects excited about being photographed.

People ask me all the time whether or not my kids get tired of being photographed. While I wish I could say "NO! They love it every time!", That just wouldn't be true. They do get tired of having their picture taken so I do my best to make the picture taking a fun thing or something they don't really notice. One of the sure fire ways to get my kids excited about having their picture taken is to get some new costumes and take pictures in those.

It's not just my kids either. I have a dress up box at my studio filled with funky hats and tutus. Sometimes when a session is almost over and the child is getting a little bored with it all, I'll try to break out something new and fun like the costumes. Girls, especially, are all over the costume idea. I tell that they we're going to play dress-up and they love it.

My boys love superhero costumes and animal costumes.  What do your kids like?

Here' how it works for us...would you like to meet the baby bats?

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The tips that I have for making the costume idea work out well are as follows...
- let the kids pick the costume
- let the kids pose however they want
- let them be weird, silly and totally crazy
- shoot fast and keep the session short
- have fun and try and just let if flow stress-free

I'd love to hear your idea for how you keep photography fun with your children and subjects. Any other great ideas, please comment!

Hope you guys all have a great holiday and enjoy some time with your family.
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November 24, 2008

 

Objective: to approach photography with one thing in mind- the hunt for spirit.

 

There are a lot of reasons why we photograph our children.  You want to document their milestones, the progress and the growth.  You want to remember what they looked like and the places you went to.  You want to capture the birthday parties and the graduations- in essence, the history of it all.  More than that though, I think we are trying to capture their spirit.  We want to remember what they sounded like when they laughed, how they made that one amazing expression, how their eyes looked, what they felt like...THAT is all much harder to capture.

 

When I was in art school, I remember someone telling me that when you shot a roll of film, you should be happy if there was a single ONE magical shot per roll.  The idea was that photography was a bit of a chase and that every shot was not going to be "the one".  It is still like that today.  I may shoot a hundred images during a session.  I'll cull that down to 30-40 that I really, really like and show that to my client.  Out of that 30-40 there may be 1 or 2 or maybe even 2-3 that I love.  I will like a lot of them and a lot of them will be good but there will be a smaller percentage that I really connect to.

 

That smaller set of images are the soul and spirit images.  For me that means that I captured what I experienced as the heart of that small moment with my subject.  Who they were to me during that photo session.  I love those images.  It is why I do what I do.

 

Here's a few from a session last week.  I love these because this was exactly how these two siblings were.

 

There were about 4 images in front of this one and behind it but this one just caught a certain something in their eyes and their bodies that makes it special.

 

Mom loved both of these.  That is always a big validation for me too.  And, of course, you have to have one like this...

 

Forget the "cheese!" and the perfect pose...go try and catch the spirit!  It's the image that you will cherish most of all.

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Objective- learning to think outside the box when it comes to photographing kids and find new ways to make them smile.

 

The best way to get a great picture of a child is to make them laugh.  I've talked about it before, kids can't fake a smile.  It just looks terrible.  When a new child comes to my studio I am always trying to figure out what makes that kid (at that moment) smile.  Parents know that "that thing" is often something you stumble upon.  It may be weird, gross, silly or just plain out there.  I've seen the weirdest things work.  The other day, I had a little girl in my studio (who I have photographed a handful of times) and I could not make her smile.  She was busy too and did not want to sit still.  I tried all my tricks to no avail.  Then, when it looked grim, Dad moo'ed like a cow and she fell out laughing.  Who'd have thought?!  Mooing?  That's exactly how it goes.

 

So, what's the thing that gets your kids/subjects going?  Sometimes it is a game of peek-a-boo...

 

 

 

Sometimes it is just giving them something to play with

 

 

Parents are the best asset in a session.  They tend to know the little idosynchratic noises and gestures that get their kids laughing but sometimes even they are powerless.  One of my little tricks that works a LOT is my ladder.  On a side note, I really like old ladders.  I know, it's sort of a weird thing to like but I really do like them.  If I thought Steven (my husband) wouldn't freak out, I'd collect them.  So, when a friend of mine called me and said "I found the coolest old ladder!  Do you want me to buy it for you? It's the small kind that you were looking for!" I jumped at it.  I thought it might be a cool thing to have at the studio and I was right!  It's perfect for the busy kid who can climb but can't sit still.  Sometimes it is the only thing that will get a kid to stay in one place.  It's a wonderful thing.

 

A week or so ago, a little girl came to my studio.  I had never met her and she was a little bit shy.  She only wanted to be on Mom's lap.  I tried everything...every puppet, every noise, every goofy trick up my sleeve!  Nothing worked!  We got close with the bubbles...

 

 

When it seemed like all hope was lost, I thought about the ladder.  Truth be told, I had thought about it earlier in the session but I thought she might be too young and that it would be too dangerous.  It's not a big ladder mind you but it is a ladder after all.

 

interject ladder safety tip: keep parent close by!  I have the parent stand right next to the ladder if it a younger climber and tell them to be watching.  I also have a carpet under the ladder.  My ladder is also only about waist high.

 

So, back to the story, what happened you say?  It worked!  She took to it right away.

 

 

The trick with the ladder is that when they get to the top, you have to be all excited, clap and cheer! "You did it!" and "Look how high you are!" and so on.  It's so cute to see them beaming at their daring accomplishment.  It looks like this:

 

 

We all love a big smile.  It's wonderful for sure and I always to try and get great smiling shots.  But wait!  the smile is only half the picture (so to speak).  When we photograph children, we should be trying to photograph them, the real "them".  Sometimes, as was true for this little one, they are a little shy.  Maybe the big smile is not always so true to their personality?  If your child or subject is a shy, reserved child then maybe what is more accurate is something like this:

 

This little girl was beautiful with and without a big smile.  Meet your child where they are and you will get better pictures.  So, if they need something crazy to make them laugh then do your best to deliver.  If they would rather be quiet and look at you with their big baby blues then maybe that is your more accurate shot.  When we put aside our preconceived notions of what we think our children's pictures should be like (what we want them to be like), let go of the idea of the perfect shot, look at who they really are and try and capture that, we become much better photographers.

 

So, go out there camera in hand and make some ridicuous noises, let them climb and be crazy!  They will usually reward you with a big smile!

 

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Objective: learning about using slow shutter speeds along with your flash to create some cool effects.


When you photograph at night or at parties where it is dark and you use a flash, the background will sometimes turn almost black.  The flash illuminates the subject well but makes the background look like a dark cave.  The way to get around this is to do something called dragging the shutter.  It's a technique used a lot by wedding photographers.  It creates some very cool motion blur while also freezing the main subject.  Here's how it works...


Normally when you use your flash, your shutter speed is around 1/60 second or maybe 1/125th of a second.  Your camera will have a set shutter speed that it uses when you use the flash.  It is called the sync speed.  If you have a camera that allows you to use shutter speed priority mode or manual mode, you can set your shutter speed lower than 1/60th.  When you do this, the camera is able to pick up more ambient light from the background.  This gives you a warmer look with bonus detail in the background.


Normally if you have a slow shutter speed you get motion blur all over the image.  However, when you use the flash, that quick burst of light will light up and freeze the motion of the primary subject.  This is a great technique for active party shots.  I love to shoot this way when everyone is out dancing!


Many of the newer cameras have a special feature called "rear curtain sync" (flash fires at the end of the exposure).  If you have yet to experiment with it, look it up in your manual and try it out.  There is also the "front curtain sync" (flash fires at the beginning of the exposure).  Each one has its own look so try them out and see which one you like.


You can also drag your shutter without using your flash.  This is trickier because you don't have the flash to freeze the motion.  Generally speaking, going below 1/60th of a second will start giving you some sort of motion blur depending on your movements and your subject's movements and whether or not you are using a tripod.  You can pan while shooting to maximize the blur and produce some really cool effects.  Panning the camera across a scene, while using a slow shutter speed, takes any light source (bulb, window, candle, etc.) and turns it into streaks of light.  You can also twist the camera or move it in a circular motion or zoom in and out while the shutter is open.  All of these methods will create various light streaks and motion blurs.  The key here is lots of play and experimentation.


Hey, Halloween is coming up!  Lots of chances to take streaky, motion blurred and spooky images!  I would love to see what you come up with while playing around.  In the meantime, here are some shots from a wedding that I shot last fall.  These were shot with a 28mm lens at about F 2.8 and 1/20th of a second.  When I do this, I usually start dragging around 1/45th and see how that looks and go lower from there depending on how much blur I want.

 

In this image, she was still so there isn't any real motion blur but, as you can see, the background has a nice warm, open feel vs. the black cave look.

 

   

 

What I really love about this technique is that it gives the images a more lively feel.  You can see the movement instead of people looking frozen and static.


So, what's your assignment?  The next time you are shooting at night or at a party, try dragging the shutter!  Before you do it, grab your camera manual and see if you have the rear curtain setting and how to use it.  Everyone's camera has its own little quirks and settings.  On mine, I just set it at shutter speed priority.  I then use my flash in ETTL mode and play around with my shutter by moving it faster and slower depending on what I am trying to get.  


I hope that you will post links to your images in the comments!  Happy Monday everyone!

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